The Answer Lies in Our Attachment Styles. As I observe my single friends and family members navigating the dating world and looking for love, I keep hearing the same question: Why do I always end up in the same kind of relationship? “I started out feeling optimistic about this relationship, but then things fell apart like they always do, and the relationship didn’t go anywhere.” “I thought this time was different, but in the end, she was critical and rejecting just like my e