Psychotherapy is a luxury that you deserve. When I was in my early 20’s, I went into psychotherapy. At that point in my life, I had tried all of the things that were supposed to bring me happiness—college, marriage, moving to a different city—and I was getting more and more miserable. I wasn’t a mental mess; I wasn’t seriously depressed. The truth was, what I was feeling was the same as many other women my age at that time. But I was worried about how my life was going so far