There are ways to liven up your relationship, even in lockdown. Even in normal times, it is easy for partners to get into a rut where their relationship is more or less on autopilot and they fall into taking each other for granted. But during these abnormal times with many couples quarantining together 24/7, the rut can get even deeper and harder to get out of. It doesn’t help that we tend to think of love in passive terms as something we “fall in” or end up “being in.” We of