The Fantasy Bond is Behind the Myth of the Soul Mate I know people who say their ultimate relationship goal is finding a soul mate. They’re looking for a kindred spirit who they were meant to be with. Is this appealing to me? I can see how the idea that there might be another person out there who is just like me and just for me could be comforting and would certainly help me feel less alone at times. But this consideration is contradicted by my very vivid awareness that each